Development of Identity
Identity can be defined as the characteristics that make a person unique. Identity is developed over a lifetime as a result of the influences of upbringing and life experiences. The combination of these two factors creates unique patterns of behavior and personality traits. In my own life I am who I am because of the people I grew up with and my perception of the events that happened in my life.
The most influential people in a child’s life are his parents they contribute much of what becomes the child’s outlook and perception of the world. A child generally forms opinions on ethics and conflict resolution based on what he learns from home. A child also is influenced by his parents in regards to education–a child who grows up with parents who stress education are more likely to get an advanced degree. I grew up in a working home with parents who valued hard work, education, moral integrity, and independence. My parent’s relationship with one another was basically good. They resolved disputes in a healthy manner. My father worked all of his life as a salesman. His ability to communicate and persuade others was imprinted on me. I have a natural ability to talk to people that has been an asset in every job that I have held. My mother was a heavier influence on my life because she was around more. From her I acquired spontaneity, creativity and a love of the outdoors. My mother influenced my opinions on the appearance of myself and others. She also laid down the moral code in which I live my life. Her strong religious belief helped me shape my own belief about God. These factors influenced me, as a child growing up. As my parents valued education and hard work I did as well. My parents also influenced relationships I had with other people and the jobs that I held. Read more…
